Fun Things to do With Your Boyfriend: The Snacking Guide


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Perfect Anniversary Gifts as Unique as Your Boyfriend


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Is Your Broken Relationship Worth Mending?


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Who Wants a Harmonious, Loving and Blissfully Happy Relationship? Me.


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How to Attract a Man, Pt. 1


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Fun Things to do With Your Boyfriend: The Snacking Guide

This is the quick easy guide for any gal that’s ever heard the saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” but isn’t a cook.  Lets face it boys love to snack and we don’t always have all day to cater to our boyfriends treat desires.  Here are a couple simple and easy treats that can be put together quickly, are fun to eat together, and will show your main squeeze that you where thinking about him.

Time Out to Chat Snack Attack
Nachos are the perfect ever so easy to make snack.  Start out with nacho chips on a cookie sheet, sprinkle with shredded cheese (you can buy it pre-shredded at any grocery store), and chop up some veggies (onion, peppers, tomato, whatever you like).  Pop in the oven for a couple minutes on your medium broil setting and plop a big spoon full of salsa and sour cream on the side.  You and your boyfriend can even do all the chopping together!  Nachos also go great with talking because they’re great for picking at.

Sweet and Salty go Together Like Love and Cuddling
Ultimate Popcorn is another super easy treat that’s great for a cozy stay in date night.  Hot air popcorn is best but microwave popcorn works great too (look for one that doesn’t have a lot of flavoring).  Melt a cup of butter in the microwave (yes real butter yummy).  Dump your popcorn into a big bowl, sprinkle a bag of M&M’s over your hot popcorn, and drizzle with butter.  Your boyfriend will love the sweet and salty treat and who knows maybe your hands will touch in the popcorn and it’ll be magical.

Seductively Sweet Treat
Love Sundays, okay so they aren’t all that different from regular Sundays but they are guaranteed to please.  The basic idea is to make Sundays together pretending it’s Valentines day.  Pick up a tub of your boyfriends favorite flavor ice cream.  Top it with hot rich dark chocolate, add heart shaped candies, red sprinkles, and whipped cream.  This treat will have you enjoying steamy Valentines day style nights together all year round.

When it comes to keeping love alive it’s important to take time out to do the little things for each other.  These romantic snacks are great ideas of fun things that you can do with your boyfriend that will keep your relationship as strong as ever.

Perfect Anniversary Gifts as Unique as Your Boyfriend

If you find your self stumped on what to give your boyfriend on a one year anniversary, you may want to consider planning a fun day or weekend together instead of a traditional gift.  Most couples have long mental lists of fun things they’d like do together as a couple.  Yet many couples find they haven’t had the time or money to get around to doing everything on the wish list.   The best gifts use an anniversary or special occasion as a reason to take some extra time, extra money, and create an experience that he’ll value more then anything you could buy in a store.

The easiest and best way to come up with a relationship building date idea that would be the perfect gift for your boyfriend is to take an inventory of interests you both have.
If you both love the same pro sports team:  Then give him tickets to a game, and treat him to drinks afterwards to celebrate the win or mourn the lose together.
If you’re a big city couple at heart but country folk by location:
Get all dressed up and pick up you main man for an over night stay in the closest metropolitan city center.  Rent a centrally located hotel room and walk the streets, eat the food, and see the sights hand in hand.

If you love to laugh together:
Then book your self a couple seats to the next yuck yucks show in your area. Want to make a whole weekend get away out of it?  Book a room at the hotel sponsoring the show and head out for breakfast the next morning, who doesn’t love to laugh, sleep in, and wake up to a big breakfast?

No matter what your interests and budget you could put together a great time out (or in) that would make the perfect gift for your boyfriend.

Is Your Broken Relationship Worth Mending?

It’s very common to hide from the pain of Breaking-Up by jumping head first into Making up, but it’s not always the smartest move.   When love or lust has you frantically plotting to get your ex- boyfriend back it’s to time take a big breath and give your potential-renewed-love a little thought.  Not all materials are recyclable, and the some goes for relationships.  Asking your self these quick questions can save you from getting stuck watching a bad re-run over and over.   You’re way better off saving your efforts for those who are truly worthy of a sequel. Below are 35 questions to ask yourself about the boy you just lost before considering whether to chase him:

1.    Does he have a new girlfriend?
2.    Did we break up cause he is abusive?
3.    Did he ever really make you feel good about your self?
4.    Is he married?
5.    Or unavailable in some other way?
6.    Does he want to be with you?
7.    Is he working at getting you back?
8.    Does he care enough to be searching articles online about getting you back?
9.    Did you brake up for a reason?
10.    Was it a really good reason?
11.    Is that problem solved?
12.    Is the reason the relationship is broken solvable?
13.    Do you really think your relationship work if you do try again?
14.    Is everyone you know is ecstatic that you’re broken up?
15.    Have all your friends been begging you to leave him forever?
16.    Do you want VERY different things out of life?
17.    Do you want the same things?
18.    Do you like the same things?
19.    Do you only want to get back together for the kids?
20.    Does he cheat on you?
21.    Did he cheat on you?
22.    Will he respect you?
23.    Did he hurt you?
24.    Can you trust him?
25.    Do you only want him back so you can break up with him?
26.    Do you want him back to stop him from moving on?
27.    Do you really want him back or do you just want his money back?
28.    Are you really in Love?
29.    Do you only want him when you can’t have him?
30.    Do you know he’s bad for you?
31.    Is it that you just don’t want to be single?
32.    Is it only because it’s easier to get an old boyfriend back then meet a new one?
33.    Do you only kinda sorta sometimes miss him?
34.    Did you fight all the time?
35.    Is it because you have something to prove?

And if these 35 questions lead you to head right back into his arms, then consider…

The Dangers of Breaking Up and Getting the Relationship Back
Relationships that have clear-cut patterns of constant breaking up and then getting the relationship back should be avoid.  Healthy relationships should be full of love, acceptance, and willingness to stick together working through hard times.  If your boyfriend/girlfriend has developed a pattern of being quick to bail when things don’t go their way it might be time to re-evaluate the commitment level.  Breaking up should not be an arguing tactic.

Initiating break ups or separations lightly is a sign of immaturity and lack of commitment.  Allowing someone to jump boat and jump back in whenever they please is never good for personal growth and self esteem.  Although there are exceptions to every rule some who isn’t willing to stick it out with you isn’t usually the best choice for a life partner.

If you find your self in a relationship where love is more of a part time job then a way of life it’s time to sit down, ask your girlfriend or boyfriend some discussion questions.  Often talking about what you are both looking for in the way of a partner, and openly discussing what point in life you feel you’re at, will give you both the clarity to decide between a commitment to stop jumping or getting your own boats.

And finally, if you asked the questions and that didn’t stop you from hopping back in bed with him, and that didn’t turn out so well… The here are a few more tips:

Getting Revenge on Your Ex-Boyfriend
Almost every girl has had her heart broken by that one jerk of an ex-boyfriend that she never saw coming.  You know him; he’s that guy that just cheated on you.  He’s the creep that tried to hit on your best friend.  He’s the insensitive loser that broke up with you on your birthday.  You where a great girlfriend, you did everything, you fell head over heels in love and you got screwed over, BIG TIME!  This ex-boyfriend who so badly needs to be taught a lesson has some how brought you from happy loving girlfriend to, that girl who has to get revenge.  This sad excuse for a man most likely really deserves the worse revenge that you and a top-notch team of best friends can think up.

There is just one problem.  It’s really hard to move on with your life when your busy checking your ex-boyfriends e-mail.  Sadly revenge on someone who hurt you so badly quickly becomes a full time job.  If you get caught in the habit of plotting revenge well still getting through your day (work, school, being a mom, whatever it is that you do) your not going to have all that much time left to be happy.  Happy people move on.  Happy people get new boyfriends who are a thousand times better then the creepy ex-boyfriend.  Happy people don’t go to their ex-boyfriends work and tell everyone he works with exactly why they should hate him.  Happy people don’t find out where he’s going Saturday night (by reading his e-mail or stocking his friends) so they can show up and freak out.  Happy people don’t get stuck in a rut.

Sure you can get drunk and cry at the next bar you see him at to make him feel really bad (or maybe just sorry for you).  You can put Alaska fish fertilizer into the air intake of his car (it’ll cost you about $25 and you’ll need about 8 showers after touching it) it’ll smell rank enough to keep him from taking any other girls out on dates for a good month.  There are tons of great ways to turn into an obsessive crazy that plans their day around making some creeps (that really does deserve it) day hell.  I how ever would have to recommend that you make this your last search for horrible ways to get revenge on your ex-boyfriend.  Use the time you had set aside for something else. Hop on over to your closet put on one hell of a sexy outfit and head out with your fierce friends (they’re so awesome that they where willing to touch fish fertilizer just for you!), and go be you fabulous self some where that a great guy who wont warrant revenge can find you.

Who Wants a Harmonious, Loving and Blissfully Happy Relationship? Me.

love and datingTwo years ago I was in an unhappy relationship which was going nowhere. When the relationship ended, I set out on a mission to learn the secrets to creating an amazing relationship…. a relationship in which I felt truly happy and fulfilled.

I wanted to know what changes I needed to make in order to stop attracting men that weren’t right for me, and start attracting men with whom I could be happy. I wanted to build my confidence and self esteem, and truly believe that I deserved a fantastic relationship, with a high quality man. I wanted to learn what creates attraction between a man and a woman. I wanted to learn what kills attraction and passion, in order that I may avoid those things.

I wanted to learn what a man is looking for in a woman and what he wants and needs in a relationship. I wanted to understand my own needs and how to get those needs met. I wanted to learn what qualities and traits I wanted in a man. I wanted to learn the communication secrets to creating a harmonious, loving and supportive relationship. I wanted to learn what creates lasting passion that lasts beyond those first few months of dating. I wanted to learn how to become more beautiful on the inside… I wanted to become a woman who radiated inner beauty… a woman who would attract a fabulous man… a man who would love me for who I am, and the values that I hold. I wanted to learn the secrets to successful dating. I wanted to learn about body language and flirting. I wanted to learn the different stages of a relationship… from the first date right through to the creation of a deeply loving and committed partnership.

I have been on an incredible journey of personal growth over the past two years… I have made mistakes, but I have picked myself up, dusted myself down… and most importantly, I have learnt from my mistakes. I now have a very clear picture of what works in a relationship and what doesn’t work.

My journey of personal growth has been very rewarding… I have had lots of ‘aha moments’… and lots of ‘I can’t believe I did that in the past’ moments! I am now in a wonderful relationship, with an incredible man… a handsome, funny, successful, giving, loving and romantic man, with whom I feel truly loved and cherished. I believe everyone deserves to have the happiness that I have found, and for this reason I am going to share the secrets I have learned, through this blog… so that you too, may create the relationship of your dreams… whether you are currently single, or already in a relationship. I hope you enjoy the journey with me… a journey to a blissful relationship, full of love, romance, fun, passion and personal growth…

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Keep checking back on a regular basis for new articles and updates.

How to Attract a Man, Pt. 1

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Have you ever found yourself trying to figure out what men wanting a relationship, are looking for in a woman? Have you ever wondered what it is that triggers the ‘attraction spark’ in a man, and makes him want to date and get to know a woman better? Have you ever noticed that some women seem to give off a certain kind of energy that attracts men to them like ‘bees to a honey pot’?

Research shows that certain characteristics in a woman trigger a very powerful attraction response in a man. I am now about to share with you how to attract a man… what causes a man to be attracted to a woman… what it is about a woman that a man finds attractive… and what triggers a man to want to date a woman and ultimately, to build a relationship with her.

Are you ready…? Okay… here goes…. A man is attracted to a woman who is… feminine. A man is attracted to a woman who is surrounded by feminine energy. Feminine energy is soft, sensuous, compassionate, playful and emotional, and needs to feel cherished and adored. Feminine energy is about feeling, receiving and being. Conversely, masculine energy is about thinking, giving and doing, and needs to feel appreciation and respect.

I have studied this area a great deal, and have come to realise that the balance of masculine energy and feminine energy is a very important factor when creating a truly successful relationship.

Both men and women have masculine and feminine energy. However, most men have a predominately masculine energy, and most women have a predominately feminine energy.

A woman who is in touch with her femininity is extremely attractive to a man and will draw men to her, without even trying.

Unfortunately, some women have become disconnected from their feminine essence and have, over time, become more masculine.

A man is attracted to a woman who is soft and vulnerable. A man wants to feel he is needed by a woman. So often, women give off a steely ‘I don’t need a man’, aura which obviously repels men.

Some women feel that to be soft and vulnerable is a sign of weakness. In fact, the exact opposite is true. When a woman is in touch with her feminine essence, she is coming from a position of strength. She becomes very powerful and very attractive. She will be greatly admired by a man, and will draw quality men towards her in a magnetic way.

Men will want to date and build a relationship with a woman who is comfortable and relaxed with her femininity. This is a vital key to attracting a quality man. The first step in reconnecting with your feminine essence is learning to let go and just be. When you are constantly rushing around ‘doing’ things, without taking the time to relax and just be, you will gradually lose your radiance. This is because ‘doing’ is masculine’, and ‘being’ is feminine.

Make time on a regular basis for some ‘me time’… time when you can simply relax, let go… and just be.
So often, we spend so much time caring for others, that we forget to take care of ourselves.
When a woman takes care of herself and takes the time to truly relax, she will stay connected to the flow of her inner radiance, and the deepest bliss of being a woman.

Do whatever feels right for you to regain your inner softness, and feel like a woman again.

Here are a few simple ideas to help you reconnect with your radiant, inner goddess:

  • Take a long, hot, candlelit bubble bath.
  • Read a romantic novel.
  • Take a walk in the countryside, where you can appreciate the beauty of nature.
  • Listen to soft, relaxing music.

Learning to take time out from ‘doing’… time where you truly let go and just be… is the essential first step in reconnecting, and staying in touch with your feminine essence.

When you stay connected with your femininity, and radiate the true essence of being a woman, you will become extremely attractive to quality men. You will hold within you an innate power, that will attract wonderful men towards you… men who will feel compelled to want to get to know you better… men who will want to date you… men who will want to treasure you and give to you their finest gifts of love… and ultimately, you will find the man of your dreams, with whom you can share a beautiful, loving relationship.